It wasn’t a dramatic transformation.
She still complained.
She still occasionally made remarks about how much easier life used to be.
But she was learning that wanting something didn’t automatically mean someone else should finance it.
After two months, Patricia decided to move into a smaller apartment closer to several friends.
The guest suite had been convenient.
But living separately gave everyone more independence.
Derek helped her move.
I helped pack some of her belongings.
One afternoon, as we carried boxes toward her car, Patricia stopped beside me.
“Lauren.”
I looked up.
She seemed uncomfortable.
“I suppose I haven’t always been fair to you.”
I waited.
She glanced away.
“I got used to things being taken care of.”
I nodded.
“Yes.”
She looked at me.
“And I didn’t always appreciate it.”
It wasn’t a complete apology.
But it was more honesty than I’d heard from her in years.
“Thank you for saying that,” I replied.