She nodded once.
Then returned to the house.
I didn’t suddenly trust her.
But I appreciated the acknowledgment.
And I no longer felt responsible for earning her approval.
Three months after Derek’s announcement, our household looked different.
The expensive meal deliveries were gone.
We cooked more often.
Sometimes Derek made dinner.
Sometimes I did.
Sometimes we ordered takeout and split the expense according to our agreed budget.
Our finances became more organized.
Derek set up automatic contributions toward the mortgage, utilities, and household savings.
We maintained separate personal spending accounts.
We discussed large purchases beforehand.
And I no longer received surprise credit-card statements filled with purchases I hadn’t approved.
One evening, Derek stood in the kitchen holding a frying pan.
“What temperature should chicken reach?”
I stared at him.
He looked up.
“What?”
I laughed.
“You’ve never asked me that before.”
He smiled sheepishly.
“I’ve never cooked chicken before.”
I showed him how to use the thermometer.