She reminded him of the nights she’d worked overtime after his father left.
She listed school expenses, birthday gifts, and countless childhood hardships.
I didn’t interrupt.
Many of those sacrifices were real.
Patricia had raised Derek through difficult circumstances.
But her hardship didn’t entitle her to control his adult finances indefinitely.
Finally, Derek spoke.
“Mom, I’m grateful for everything you did.”
She looked hopeful.
“But I can’t give you money I need to meet my own responsibilities.”
She stared at him.
Then turned toward me.
“You’ve poisoned him against me.”
I stood.
“No, Patricia.”
My voice was calm.
“I didn’t create the household bills. And I didn’t create your credit-card debt.”
She looked furious.
I continued.
“You deserve respect as his mother. But Derek and I also deserve the right to manage our own marriage.”
She placed her glass down sharply.
“I never thought you’d turn my son against me.”