She nodded slowly.
“Exactly.”
Then she reached across the table and took my hand.
“Sweetheart, there’s something I want you to understand. You don’t have to become rude to stop people from mistreating you. You don’t have to shout louder than them or embarrass them in return. Sometimes, all you have to do is remain calm and refuse to accept what isn’t right.”
I looked down at our hands.
“I know. I just wish it hadn’t taken me so long to learn that.”
My mother squeezed my fingers.
“Learning something late is still learning it.”
For a moment, neither of us spoke.
Then she smiled.
“Now, did you really think I’d let you tell me that entire story without giving you a proper slice of birthday cake?”
I laughed.
“I was hoping you wouldn’t.”
After dinner, we gathered around the table while my cousins cleared the plates. My mother brought out the cake, and I helped her cut it into generous slices.