After leaving the dining room, I went upstairs and sat at my desk.
I opened my banking app.
For several minutes, I simply studied the list of transactions.
There were restaurant bills.
Fuel purchases.
Online shopping.
Clothing.
Golf equipment.
Weekend entertainment.
Personal gifts.
And an astonishing number of meal deliveries.
All of them paid through additional cards linked to my personal credit account.
Derek had been using those cards for years.
So had Patricia.
I’d originally authorized the arrangement for convenience.
Derek traveled frequently for work, and sometimes he needed access to household purchases while I was busy.
Patricia began using a supplementary card when she moved into our guest suite temporarily following an illness.
Temporary became permanent.
And gradually, purchases that had once required a conversation became automatic.
A designer handbag for Patricia.
A weekend hotel stay Derek described as a business expense.
An expensive dinner with friends.
A new watch.