My hands were trembling.
I hadn’t noticed it until the argument was over.
The woman across the aisle gave me a sympathetic smile.
“You handled that well.”
I let out a long breath.
“I wasn’t sure I could.”
“Well, you did.”
I thanked her.
Then she said something that stayed with me.
“Honestly, I wish I’d spoken up sooner. I saw what he was doing, but I kept thinking somebody else would say something.”
I understood her more than she knew.
I had spent years waiting for other people to give me permission to stand up for myself. I had waited for someone to tell me that I wasn’t being difficult, that my discomfort mattered, that I didn’t need to apologize for asking to be treated with respect.
Perhaps she had been waiting for the same thing.
“You helped when I asked,” I told her. “That mattered.”
She smiled and returned to her magazine.