5. How passionately she lives her life
Passion is sexy. It just is. Without passion, love fades. Without passion, life fades.
Having someone in your life who’s passionate about the things she does — even if it’s the littlest of things — has a very positive impact on your life. Because she’s passionate, you’ll likely become more passionate. Being passionate makes you feel sexy.
So now you’re both feeling passionate and sexy. Need I say more?
6. How she makes you want to be a better person
Sexiness has a power to it. It moves us. It influences us. It’s an energy that both excites and attracts us. It even motivates us. Or rather, the fear of losing her motivates you to become a better version of you.
Of course, her kind and motivating words also help, but it’s really how much you need her that makes you want to grow as an individual.
7. The way she listens
It can be difficult to understand how being a good listener is sexy. I get that. I didn’t always understand it either — not until realizing, after years of meeting people and having conversations, that most people don’t listen.
They don’t listen just to listen; they listen just enough so they can respond. Most of the time people are talking, they’re really just eagerly awaiting the next time they can speak. You don’t know how sexy being a good listener is until you realize how incredibly rare that is.
