Why avoid: A vibrant red outfit stands out drastically in a room filled with traditional dark clothing, making it look like you are seeking the spotlight.
Alternative: If you prefer warmer tones, stick to deep wine, plum, or dark maroon.
Comprehensive Wardrobe Etiquette Checklist
To ensure your outfit meets standard etiquette guidelines, use this quick checklist before leaving the house:
ASPECT WHAT TO CHOOSE WHAT TO AVOID
Primary Colors Black, Navy, Charcoal, Dark Brown Neons, Bright Red, Loud Patterns
Clothing Cut High necklines, knee-length dresses, suits Low-cut tops, athletic wear, short shorts
Footwear Closed-toe flats, loafers, conservative heels Flip-flops, flashy sneakers, stiletto boots
Accessories Minimalist jewelry, simple ties, dark scarves Glitzy jewelry, oversized sunglasses indoors
Exceptions to the Rule: Celebration of Life Services
It is important to note that modern memorial events are changing. Some families explicitly request a “Celebration of Life” where guests are encouraged to wear bright colors or a specific shade that the individual loved.
