Every Graduate’s Sibling Had to Create a Prom Gift for Them – I Worried About My Brother with Down Syndrome Until I Saw What He Had Made for Me Felicity Smith

My brother spent months secretly building my prom  gift in the garage. When he finally opened the box in front of everyone, I wasn’t prepared for what he’d made.

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“I made this in the garage,” Danny said. “It took me a long time.”

Then he reached his hand into the box.

For one awful second, I was still worried.

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Not about Danny.

About everyone else.

About the room.

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About how 400 people can go quiet and somehow make one person feel even smaller.

Then Danny pulled out a little wooden bird.

It fit in his palm.

The wings were uneven.

One was slightly thicker than the other, and the beak tilted left.

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But I knew exactly what it was.

A sparrow.

I covered my mouth.

Danny looked at me.

“You know it?”

I nodded.

I couldn’t speak.

When we were little, Nana used to call me Sparrow because I never stopped talking.

Danny couldn’t say “sparrow” clearly when he was two, so for years he called me “Pah-row.”

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Even once he could say it right, he’d sometimes bring back the old word just to make me laugh.

Danny held the bird closer to the microphone.

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“This is Marianne.”

The room laughed softly.

Not at him.

With him.

He shook his head.

“Not all Marianne. Just bird Marianne.”

That got a bigger laugh.

My eyes burned.

Then he reached into the box again.

He pulled out another carving.

A small wooden key.

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