THE SEATS HE WAITED A LIFETIME TO SEE
My ninety-two-year-old grandfather, Jeremy, taught me that football started long before kickoff.
For him, match day was never simply about ninety minutes on a field.
It was a ritual.
Every Saturday, he pulled open the curtains, wrapped the same faded blue scarf around his neck, and settled into the worn recliner beside the television.
Nobody else was allowed to sit there.
Not because he was particularly selfish.
Because, according to Grandpa, that chair was part of the team’s success.
“If I sit somewhere else,” he always said, “we’ll lose.”
I used to laugh at him.
“You’ve been sitting in that chair for thirty years. Maybe the team is winning despite you.”
He would point at me with complete seriousness.
“Don’t test fate.”
That was Grandpa.
Even at ninety-two, he still believed certain traditions mattered.
And perhaps they did.
Because sometimes, traditions aren’t really about football.
They’re about the people you share them with.